lets all get together an suck

why the fuck are there so many articles and people that group a huge section of people into a group and dictate that they like/want/do something?

'what guys want', everything. well, not each of them, but all of them.
'what girls want', everything. well, not each of them, but all of them.

are we not individuals? maybe the MYSTERY that lies in that other group is there because that group is made up a bunch of different people with their own desires/needs/motives/dna/upbringing/experiences.

for some reason there is a myth that it's easier to understand people in groups. somehow we get simpler if you bunch us together. you have no chance to understand him, so lets talk about them. you'll never be able to get that woman, so read a book about all women.

if only it was limited to 'others'. it's not. you are not all men. you are not all women. you are not all rich. you are not all hispanics. you are not all whities. you are you. coki was telling me how much better women are at multitasking. that doesn't mean you're better or worse at multitasking than anybody else. cause you are YOU, you are not women/men. others have said women are weaker than men. so fucking what? i've met plenty that can beat me up. maybe you. you probly should.


maybe there's no big secret. maybe you're special enough to not be the group. maybe i'm me, not them. maybe i'm stupid, but it seems to me a lot easier to get to know one person, than all of them.


maybe we should dance